Extroverts vs. Introverts: Is One Better than the Other?

Extroverts vs. Introverts: Is One Better than the Other?

I've been seeing a lot of memes and graphics floating around social media on introverts the last few weeks. What I find most interesting about this recent trend are the heated comments that follow these posts. Some introverts on these threads share feeling highly misunderstood, while the extroverts share that they are feeling labeled as pushy insensitive assholes...

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Boundary Basics 101

Boundary Basics 101

One of the topics I am often asked to write and speak on is healthy personal and professional boundaries and ethics. It is one of the most important topics I teach to my clinical clients and the therapists I supervise.  However, the topic of boundaries is often misunderstood by folks, even therapists seem confused at times. My "Mari-ism" or golden rules on boundaries have to do with thinking that other people are responsible for our boundaries. Are you a boundary buster? Or do you bust others unfairly for crossing your boundaries?

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The Importance of Creating Passive Income Streams

The Importance of Creating Passive Income Streams

Creating successful passive and leveraged income streams may sound daunting or mysterious, but I promise you that any one with a good idea and the willingness to learn and dig in can do this! If you have have been procrastinating on writing your book, e-book, or creating a group, retreat or workshop, here is a secret: any therapist, not just the tech savvy, the writing wizards, or the creative geniuses, can develop at least one additional income stream with clear information, supported direction, encouragement, and tools...

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Blog Rule 1: Don't follow BullShit Rules.

Blog Rule 1: Don't follow BullShit Rules.

This year I decided to try something different. Instead of saying fuck it to blogging, what if I just tossed out the stupid rules for-ev-er. No matter what those self proclaimed nit picky "blog experts" had to say, I wasn't buying what they were selling. It was time to step out of the herd mentality and create my own blog that felt true to me. Can you relate? Well read on fellow tribes person, read on...

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Weekly Blogs, Brain Fogs, and Time Hogs...Oh My!

Weekly Blogs, Brain Fogs, and Time Hogs...Oh My!

Does sitting down and writing the suggested twice weekly blog post feel overwhelming? My coaching clients often share, "Mari, I sit down to write my blog, and my brain fogs up...I feel blocked." or, "Writing a blog each week feels like a time hog - I have other things to focus on too!" I feel you fellow therapists and bloggers!  Just like you, I juggle many roles. We CAN blog like a boss, and it doesn't have to suck our energy dry. Here are my best super speedy tips for a fun blog relationship that lifts up your energy vs. another time suck in your day...

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Leaning into Risk....One Pinky at a Time

Leaning into Risk....One Pinky at a Time

I have had the honor of speaking and teaching on various topics (resiliency, sex addiction, betrayal, practice building, writing, connection) to wonderful audiences and good hearted groups of people all over the country. One of the concepts I often discuss is what I call, "living and loving with open palms." I think about it this way:

If I live and I love holding all of what I have tightly in my fisted hands...it is true that nothing will escape - not my knowledge, or support, or information, not my time, not my love, nor my money, or my opportunities...nada will slip away from my tight grasp, nothing is lost, zip is risked.

But nothing gets in either. 

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Group Shaming: Are you part of an Online Tribe or Herd?

Group Shaming: Are you part of an Online Tribe or Herd?

Do you know the difference?

I've been a part of both before. And I now recognize the difference. What about you?

Healthy Tribes:

Allow for unique voices and different approaches. While there are professional boundaries and a code of conduct, no one "owns" the leadership or authority, there are many opinions and ideas, each worthwhile and valued. No one is threatened by the other's success. Sincerity and transparency is celebrated...

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SEO: Friend or Foe

SEO: Friend or Foe

For a long time SEO felt like a vast and mysterious land where only the most uber tech savvy people had secret maps to the pot of gold. I felt like SEO was a yellow brick road filled with flying monkeys and bubbling cauldrons of confusion. And, all of my wonderful colleagues seemed to be in the same predicament! My questions were often met with a glazed over look, a shrug, and a muttered, “I dunno', I don’t get it either.”

Even the top coaches and web designers seemed stumped on how to answer my questions on how best to optimize my website. I sent them article upon article, and the usual answer was a cryptic, “Huh? Interesting.” The entire subject remained an unsolved mystery not only to me, but apparently the public at large.

Until recently.

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Top 10 Questions to Focus Your Multiple Income Streams Vision

Top 10 Questions to Focus Your Multiple Income Streams Vision

Creating Multiple Income Streams is an excellent way to not only bolster the income made through your business, but also help you earn income passively. It lets you work smarter, not harder! 

The purpose of the questions below are to help you begin to identify areas where you may be able to create additional income streams for yourself and your practice. 

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What to include in your clinical intake packet for court and letter fees

What to include in your clinical intake packet for court and letter fees

A question I often hear is, "How do I let clients know that I charge for out of session letter preparation and court costs?" Having a clear comprehensive court preparation and documentation policy is a very important part of best practices for therapists. In this blog, Mari discusses what to include in your clinical intake forms...

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